Favorite Black Loves In Cinema

Cane River’s Peter (Richard Romain) and Maria (Tommye Myrick).  

Happy Valentine’s (or Single Awareness Day) to those who celebrate all kinds of love, romance, and self-care joy. 

In the Black cinematic world, there is still movement to be made in ways of a well-crafted story, compelling cinematography, and fine acting. Some films have one or two of the ingredients; barely all three to make the recipe complete. When it comes to heteronormative Black love, putting on the classic Love Jones or Jason’s Lyric (which both feature the incredible Lisa Nicole Carson) sparks up the mood whereas the out of the vault Cane River is a marvel to behold. Even the startlingly passionate Ganja & Hess must be recommended for its daring portrayal of Black vampiric lust despite the unhappy ending for the pair. 

Black LGBTQIA+ films such as Moonlight, Pariah, and Rafiki contain the queer violence that comes from sanctimonious communities that cannot accept such a love. Yet that is only for a moment that that ugly bandaid comes off and the healing slowly begins. Moonlight is exceptionally beautiful for showcasing the bonds between skinfolk and kinfolk, subtleties between love and longing, and the desire for men to be themselves alone and with each other. Pariah and Rafiki have these awestruck profoundly engaging periods of Black women love; joining hands in friendship and embarking on bliss no matter the consequences. Bessie, dee rees other film, highlights the musician’s bisexuality starring Queen Latifah who doesn’t need to don a fat suit. This Bessie role suits her and doesn’t end like her tragic Cleo in Set it Off. Overwhelmingly romantic short films tender and pure are charming gems that share a sweet intimacy with thought-provoking conversations and dancing between women. 

As for the asexual spectrum in film, we have a crucial journey ahead. Characters rarely seek happiness outside finding relationships. Although Alike ends on her burgeoning writing path, throughout Pariah, she has a great desire to explore her sexuality, hidden like a flaming shame from her parents. Selah in Selah and the Spades, however, is high on the adrenaline of power, allowing nothing not even the idea of idyllic teenage sex lure her away from her intense drive— a drive that has Paloma looking at Selah in moments of perpetual longing. On the darker side of asexuality, the rooted misogynoir historically depicted through the white lens. Writer Kira Sterrert brushes up on the mammy beginnings in filmdaze; addressing how Black women behind-the-scenes are finally creating their own corrected promotion:

“The more Black women that are writers, directors, and producers in Hollywood, the more they’ll bring narratives that depict positive and real depictions of Black life as a woman or femme. Black women are more than their bodies or their relation to white people, they are multi-hyphenate and multidimensional — pure magic.”

Here’s hoping for a cinematic future filled with all representations of love created that Black filmmakers create for Black cinephiles (and all other cinephiles) to appreciate in the years to come. 

Recommended Films About Black Love By Black Filmmakers 

Love Jones, written and directed by Theodore Witcher, 1997. 

Pariah, written and directed by dee rees, 2011.

Moonlight, written by Tarrell Alvin McCraney and Barry Jenkins and directed by Barry Jenkins, 2016.

Ganja & Hess, written by Bill Gunn and directed by Bill Gunn and Lawrence Jordan, 1973. 

Really Love, written by Felicia Pride and Angel Kristi Williams and directed by Angel Kristi Williams, 2020. 

Rafiki, written and directed by Wanuri Kahiu, 2019. 

The Weekend, written and directed by Stella Meghie, 2018.  

Heaven Reaches Down to Earth, written by Tebogo Malebogo and Petrus van Staden and directed by Tebogo Malebogo.

pure, written and directed by Natalie Jasmine Harris, 2021. 

tender, written and directed by Felicia Pride, 2020. 

Cane River, written and directed by Horace Jenkins, 1982, remastered and released 2018. 

Selah and the Spades, written and directed by Tayarisha Poe, 2019.

Jason’s Lyric, written by Bobby Smith Jr. and directed by Doug McHenry, 1994.  

Middle of Nowhere, written and directed by Ava DuVernay, 2012.  

Bessie, written and directed by dee rees, 2015. 

Boxing Day, written and directed by Aml Ameen, 2021.  

How Stella Got Her Groove Back, written by Terry McMillan and Ronald Bass and directed by Kevin Rodney Sullivan, 1998.